Forgive/Forget

^"13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" - Colossians 3

and this is how the Lord forgave...

^"33 When they came to the place called the Skull, there they crucified him, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left. ³⁴ Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots" - Luke 23

as they killed him, he forgave. inconceivable...
thank you for persepective, my issues seem trite now. i know compassion is the way to go, and i know exoneration should follow, but i sill dont feel like im ready yet. help me to show grace when i am.